There is so much "wisdom" offered by writers, pastors, counselors, and self- proclaimed experts on relationships, singleness, and marriage today. I don't want to discount what their messages or claim that they are untrue, but is it all really necessary? Captivating, Wild at Heart, Passion and Purity, I Kissed Dating Goodbye, Marriage on the Rock, the list goes on and on. I often find myself more anxious, confused, or even worse, convinced that I am now "ready" after listening to sermons or reading books on the subject.
I started reading The Shadow of the Almighty the other day, which is the story of Jim Elliot, written by his wife Elizabeth. He writes this, which I believe to be real wisdom and a simple truth for all of us to cling to:
"No one warns young people to follow Adam's example. He waited till God saw his need. Then God made Adam sleep, prepared for his mate, and brought her to him. We need more of this 'being asleep' in the will of God. Then we can receive what He brings us in His own time, if at all." (50).
What's the wisdom in this? Adam waited. He rested. He didn't know what he needed, but relied on the Lord completely to care for him. And God, when he saw that it was no longer good for Adam to be alone, designed a partner specifically for him. May we all find deeper rest and greater trust in our Father, who knows each of our needs and meets them accordingly.
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